Everybody wants to feel love all the time but … many are not even sure what love is!
Fear is love repressed and in the dark – not developed yet, if you will. Total
love still knows fears but coupled with the mind, it may feel fears but feels love all around anyway.
Also, it knows not to repress love or even attempt to abort it as those do who never let love ‘in’ enough.
Fear is a protector and yet fear of closeness of love is a popular misuse of love. We need common sense fears as guidelines in the many aspects of life including survival. To ‘shut down’ or destroy the receipt of love is an abomination with strong karmic implications if never addressed.
Love in its deep, unexplored depths can be for most, frightening and scary with pains and hurts that incite one to ‘pull back’ and unfortunately miss the beauty that was coming.
In a way, it’s like the birth of a new born child, rarely is pain not experienced in the
birthing process.
Love too, for those new to deeper love and unknowingly filled with years of loneliness or lack of deep love, will need to reach deep and surrender as love awaits the letting go necessary.
Love only hides and never disappears. It’s always there, and there is nothing to really lose.
Only the fearful mind playing its defensive tricks, keeps it from the path of flowering.
With couples, usually fear of love meets another fear of love and neither has the skill to
know how to rise above it. Fear of love is a certainty for hurt, pain and perhaps an illusory
loss that might be unrecoverable from.
Love’s unfulfilled graves fill the earth when the dawning of love meets fear of the lightness of being which stimulates the mind to fall back into the uneasy comfort of darkness.
Love may take courage! Love brings many freedoms, and one of them is the freedom from paralyzing false fears that “scared love” brings. Be brave in the heart!
Yesss Self Help Center
Arhata Osho
ArhataFreeSpeech@yahoo.com
310-880-2020
Port Townsend, Washington USA
http://www.freedomofspeech.netfirms.com/
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